Freyland wrote: ↑Fri Sep 07, 2018 4:22 pm
Thank goodness you figured out that last part so quickly.
She's a witch, so dbt should have known he was in for some wild times!
I'm still confused as to why you feel the need to "hope" she eats elsewhere. If she shows up while you're eating, just tell her no visitors during dinner. If she comes into your house and starts making herself something to eat...I don't know. Shallow grave time?
I assume given your circumstances you don't have a sit down dinner with your wife at the dinner table at an established time. That gives you all sorts of flexibility to not feed this person.
I'm starting to understand but it's still a little confusing. I must have missed the living arrangements between you and your SiL and his wife because I can't quite parse this rent/house sitting combo. If the house sitter is being paid enough that the SiL can't pay rent, then I would absolutely restrict this person from also stealing my food.
a) where's my rent money?
b) where's my grocery money?
c) Who are you and why do you have both of my a) and b)? Talking to my wife is not a fair exchange for both those.
Also, shallow grave.