LordMortis wrote: Thu Apr 15, 2021 12:21 pm
It doesn't. If this shit kills my mother, I will forgive no one. Ever. I don't have it in me. I'm not that good of a person.

I wish I could offer something helpful here. My aunt has a close friend that contracted it last year. She's high risk - asthmatic and diabetic; I believe 80 or 81. She was hospitalized for a month, then in and out of rehab centers for another month. At one point she had a heart attack. I am actually surprised that she made it based on what I was told.
Anyway she has since recovered (February-ish) and (1) refuses to wear a mask and (2) refuses to get vaccinated. She had been berating my aunt for months about how careful she was being, which then stopped when she was hospitalized. Now that she's out and about, she's back to berating my aunt for being vaccinated and wearing a mask. Up until the pandemic they were really close friends - always going out together and socializing quite a bit. I don't think my aunt has actually seen her now in over a year - just phone calls.
I'm just at a complete loss on how to have a dialogue with whatever percentage of people are in that "never vax" group. I saw a photo today on Twitter of an older man at a baseball game wearing a shirt that said, "My son died of Covid-19 and I'm still voting for Trump". I don't know if he was just stiggin' it or it was the truth, but yeah.
Regardless, I'm sorry. I cannot imagine the stress I'd be feeling if either of my parents refused. At some point though, that's on them; you can't beat yourself up.