Random randomness

[Isgrimnur]

You get some other schmuck to buy them.

[hitbyambulance]

The “thumbs up” emoji may look like harmless enough, but rest assured it is the most passive-aggressive of all the emojis at your disposal. It's a dismissive kiss-off, meted out with a single flick of the finger. It's a close cousin of the middle-finger emoji, for people not brave enough to use the middle-finger emoji.Feb 1, 2021

https://www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/dea ... sed-to-use

[gilraen]

At work, we use "thumbs up" on Teams all the time as a sign of agreement with someone or acknowledgement that they answered your question.

[jztemple2]

The “thumbs up” emoji may look like harmless enough, but rest assured it is the most passive-aggressive of all the emojis at your disposal. It's a dismissive kiss-off, meted out with a single flick of the finger. It's a close cousin of the middle-finger emoji, for people not brave enough to use the middle-finger emoji.Feb 1, 2021

I am, once again, happy that I am old enough that if I violate some unwritten internet rule folks will just assume it's due to ignorance on my part.

[Max Peck]

[coopasonic]

Yeah, kind of like Holman already addressed, I am a 50 year old guy managing Gen Z software engineers in a remote environment so text based communication is common (Slack, mostly) and I hope they understand that I am a middle aged manager just doing his job. Of course the fact that I am involuntarily sarcastic and am known as a board gamer and video gamer and am generally perceived as younger than I actually am makes me wonder if there might be some opportunity for confusion there. Depending on the use case, I can switch to ACK or YES. Can I use Admiral Akbar as an ACK or is that a trap?

[Daehawk]

Its hot out today but theres some beautiful clouds up in the simulation today.

[jztemple2]

Yeah, kind of like Holman already addressed, I am a 50 year old guy managing Gen Z software engineers in a remote environment so text based communication is common (Slack, mostly) and I hope they understand that I am a middle aged manager just doing his job. Of course the fact that I am involuntarily sarcastic and am known as a board gamer and video gamer and am generally perceived as younger than I actually am makes me wonder if there might be some opportunity for confusion there. Depending on the use case, I can switch to ACK or YES. Can I use Admiral Akbar as an ACK or is that a trap?

I'm wondering if it would be beneficial to send out a message to all pointing out that you are indeed a 50 year old who might use some symbols or phrases in a way in which younger folks might not be familiar. Or would they take offense to that?

[dbt1949]

When I was 50 I was trying to figure out how to survive Y2K.

[Isgrimnur]

When I was 50 I was trying to figure out how to survive Y2K.

Congratulations

[dbt1949]

I'm not sure.

[jztemple2]

When I was 50 I was trying to figure out how to survive Y2K.

You just didn't realize that Y2K was going to be the easiest year of the century

[dbt1949]

Because Y2K didn't happen I had my oldest stepson come live with me for thirteen years.

[coopasonic]

Yeah, kind of like Holman already addressed, I am a 50 year old guy managing Gen Z software engineers in a remote environment so text based communication is common (Slack, mostly) and I hope they understand that I am a middle aged manager just doing his job. Of course the fact that I am involuntarily sarcastic and am known as a board gamer and video gamer and am generally perceived as younger than I actually am makes me wonder if there might be some opportunity for confusion there. Depending on the use case, I can switch to ACK or YES. Can I use Admiral Akbar as an ACK or is that a trap?

I'm wondering if it would be beneficial to send out a message to all pointing out that you are indeed a 50 year old who might use some symbols or phrases in a way in which younger folks might not be familiar. Or would they take offense to that?

They wouldn't take offense, but we don't specifically talk about age at work because age discrimination is a thing and apparently talking about it can have consequences.

[Holman]

At work, we use "thumbs up" on Teams all the time as a sign of agreement with someone or acknowledgement that they answered your question.

I think many people have adopted Thumbs Up to mean "OK" because the "OK" gesture now connotes white supremacy.

[Smoove_B]

I think many people have adopted Thumbs Up to mean "OK" because the "OK" gesture now connotes white supremacy.

Incidentally, if you're texting or emailing with younger folks, be aware of "ok".

I've unofficially polled a number of people in the 18-21 range over the last few years and can confirm many see it as being passive aggressive.

[dbt1949]

I hate people.
Also in the future if I use OK I mean nothing negative about it.

[coopasonic]

I think many people have adopted Thumbs Up to mean "OK" because the "OK" gesture now connotes white supremacy.

Incidentally, if you're texting or emailing with younger folks, be aware of "ok".

I've unofficially polled a number of people in the 18-21 range over the last few years and can confirm many see it as being passive aggressive.

OK, Boomer.

[Blackhawk]

I think many people have adopted Thumbs Up to mean "OK" because the "OK" gesture now connotes white supremacy.

Incidentally, if you're texting or emailing with younger folks, be aware of "ok".

I've unofficially polled a number of people in the 18-21 range over the last few years and can confirm many see it as being passive aggressive.

OK, Boomer.

[gilraen]

At work, we use "thumbs up" on Teams all the time as a sign of agreement with someone or acknowledgement that they answered your question.

I think many people have adopted Thumbs Up to mean "OK" because the "OK" gesture now connotes white supremacy.

Well, there are only, like, 6 "reaction" emojis on Teams (the kind you stick on top of someone else's message, not the standalone ones). So it's not like there are many other options.

Ultimately, I'm way too overworked to give a shit.

[jztemple2]

At work, we use "thumbs up" on Teams all the time as a sign of agreement with someone or acknowledgement that they answered your question.

I think many people have adopted Thumbs Up to mean "OK" because the "OK" gesture now connotes white supremacy.

Wait, so when I've been making the circled thumb and index finger and sticking my other index finger through it I've been indicating "fuck white supremacy"?

[Sudy]

Incidentally, if you're texting or emailing with younger folks, be aware of "ok".

I've unofficially polled a number of people in the 18-21 range over the last few years and can confirm many see it as being passive aggressive.

But who exactly is at fault here? I didn't get to tell my grandmother to be less racist just because it made me feel uncomfortable.

[Sudy]

I... actually get the thumbs-up criticism. In social media, it's the 'Yeah, I see you' alternative to actually responding. You make a thoughtful post, and you're looking for meaningful feedback, and someone just clicks 'thumbs up' and gets back to what they were doing. It's like stepping up in front of a room, making a huge pronouncement, and everyone just turns back to what they were doing before you got there.

Given how prevalent social media has become in communication, it's reasonable that it would be seen similarly (a lazy brush-off) in other contexts.

Isn't that just mirroring how the gesture can be used in real life? Isn't this loosely just a conversation about sarcasm? But I understand the specific issue is both generational/cultural and due to the frequent lack of context online.

Thumbs up is my go-to "I approve of/appreciate your post, but I don't have anything substantive to add" response on Discord. It's what I use when someone has shared their 30th wildlife shot this month and I appreciate their talent, but how many interesting fucking things can you say about ducks? So again, a +1. There have been oodles of times I've wanted to share how much I enjoyed someone's post at OO, but I don't have anything interesting enough to add to justify making a whole new post (that would bump the thread for everyone). But that's just a limitation of this format, or at least this implementation of it. It still has its many strengths as well.

[jztemple2]

I... actually get the thumbs-up criticism. In social media, it's the 'Yeah, I see you' alternative to actually responding. You make a thoughtful post, and you're looking for meaningful feedback, and someone just clicks 'thumbs up' and gets back to what they were doing. It's like stepping up in front of a room, making a huge pronouncement, and everyone just turns back to what they were doing before you got there.

Given how prevalent social media has become in communication, it's reasonable that it would be seen similarly (a lazy brush-off) in other contexts.

Isn't that just mirroring how the gesture can be used in real life? Isn't this loosely just a conversation about sarcasm? But I understand the specific issue is both generational/cultural and due to the frequent lack of context online.

Thumbs up is my go-to "I approve of/appreciate your post, but I don't have anything substantive to add" response on Discord. It's what I use when someone has shared their 30th wildlife shot this month and I appreciate their talent, but how many interesting fucking things can you say about ducks? So again, a +1. There have been oodles of times I've wanted to share how much I enjoyed someone's post at OO, but I don't have anything interesting enough to add to justify making a whole new post (that would bump the thread for everyone). But that's just a limitation of this format, or at least this implementation of it. It still has its many strengths as well.

Very well said! I've never thought about it but that would be my reasoning for a thumbs up on YouTube without posting a comment.

[jztemple2]

Went to the bank today to close my wife's account. Turns out I need a death certificate as the power of attorney is no longer valid.

Hmm, I did not know that. With my wife's various health issues we both long ago got powers of attorney and medical powers of attorney for each other.

[dbt1949]

I have both myself but evidently no longer valid after death. I'm also the sole heir too but that doesn't affect it either.

[LordMortis]

To the conversation outside of dbt...

Meh.

[Blackhawk]

I... actually get the thumbs-up criticism. In social media, it's the 'Yeah, I see you' alternative to actually responding. You make a thoughtful post, and you're looking for meaningful feedback, and someone just clicks 'thumbs up' and gets back to what they were doing. It's like stepping up in front of a room, making a huge pronouncement, and everyone just turns back to what they were doing before you got there.

Given how prevalent social media has become in communication, it's reasonable that it would be seen similarly (a lazy brush-off) in other contexts.

Isn't that just mirroring how the gesture can be used in real life? Isn't this loosely just a conversation about sarcasm? But I understand the specific issue is both generational/cultural and due to the frequent lack of context online.

Thumbs up is my go-to "I approve of/appreciate your post, but I don't have anything substantive to add" response on Discord. It's what I use when someone has shared their 30th wildlife shot this month and I appreciate their talent, but how many interesting fucking things can you say about ducks? So again, a +1. There have been oodles of times I've wanted to share how much I enjoyed someone's post at OO, but I don't have anything interesting enough to add to justify making a whole new post (that would bump the thread for everyone). But that's just a limitation of this format, or at least this implementation of it. It still has its many strengths as well.

And that's how it started, and how people who've been around for a while use it. But it's evolved into something else. It's "That's nice, dear" from an adult when you were a kid. Yeah, yeah. I heard you. Moving on. Sort of like when you post a thread on OO that's important to you and it rolls off the page without a single reply.

That isn't always the intent, but I have felt it come across that way a few times (and I rarely post on social media.)

[jztemple2]

Sort of like when you post a thread on OO that's important to you and it rolls off the page without a single reply.

I resemble that remark. They don't call me "Threadkiller" for nothing

[Madmarcus]

Thumbs up is my go-to "I approve of/appreciate your post, but I don't have anything substantive to add" response on Discord. It's what I use when someone has shared their 30th wildlife shot this month and I appreciate their talent, but how many interesting fucking things can you say about ducks? So again, a +1.

Same. While I have used a sarcastic ok or thumb's up in person when I use it in social media or texts it is either acknowledgement of getting a text that doesn't need an answer or trying to say that I appreciate something but don't have any additional interesting thoughts about it.

BTW, what is the status of k? With the issues surrounding ok I have thought about switching to it but whenever I put it in a text it feels like I"m trying too hard to be less out of touch.

[LordMortis]

Good thing I don't text Zers. K is a pretty standard response for me to acknowledge a text with no additional info. Same goes for back when I had to Teams/Skype. Much worse for my inner X passive aggressive was how Teams/Skype was essentially a childlike way to demand attention. Like if you are talking to someone, on the phone, answering email, doing things, an IM was supposed to stop everything so you can read and respond. The constant sense of immediacy above and beyond all of the other things competing for my attention drove me to the point of leaving my status as "appear away" 24/7 and then I chose whether to address the messages at all.

[Blackhawk]

There are actual issues with 'OK' other than the gesture?

[hitbyambulance]

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[dbt1949]

[jztemple2]

+1

If it's good enough for Vault Boy, it's good enough for me!

[Max Peck]

[Madmarcus]

There are actual issues with 'OK' other than the gesture?

I've seen suggestions that the gesture identification is enough to taint the word itself. Add the confusion over the changing meaning (is it a positive response, is it sarcastic, is it a complete brush off?) and it is enough for me to steer away from it most of the time even if the language needs a good, short, positive acknowledgement word. Unfortunately roger and affirmative both sound stilted and, at least to my ears, simply k sounds even more passive aggressive or sarcastic then OK.

[Jaymann]

10-4 good buddy.

[hitbyambulance]

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Blackhawk]

There are actual issues with 'OK' other than the gesture?

I've seen suggestions that the gesture identification is enough to taint the word itself.

I honestly don't see that, and doubt the connection is strong enough to change my using that particular term.