coopasonic wrote: ↑Mon Sep 11, 2023 3:31 pm
I am an educated liberal who used to actually be pretty smart, though biology was never really my thing, and I still don't really understand the concept that gender is a social construct. I guess it is the difference between sex and gender? I mean I totally understand that gender ROLES are a social construct.
I'd guess that you understand better than you think. The ROLES are a social construct, and that's pretty much the whole of it. Gender no longer really refers to physical qualities at all. Gender (modern usage) is pretty much entirely the roles and qualities that we (society) assign to people. It is our understanding of what a 'male' or 'female' is, our expectations of them, and which category we (traditionally) have assigned to them. Look at 'act like a man' and 'be more ladylike' - that's 100% gender. The modern usage deals with which* of those gender roles you naturally fit into. It's your instincts, your qualities, your mannerisms, your daily norms, your drives, your feelings, your preferences, etc.
The problem is that for most of our history, we've accepted people when their gender role and sex (what's hanging - or not - between your legs) match. When they don't match, we've either outcast them or forced them to conform ("boys don't play with dolls!") And now the people whose sex and gender don't match are speaking out, and saying - hey, why should we suppress who we are and be miserable in order to not make you uncomfortable? They've decided that being different no longer means that they need to be 'fixed.'
*Unlike (most) sex, gender isn't male or female. It is a huge range of qualities that leads to a spectrum effect, which is why you also end up with non-binary people, etc (whose role doesn't match the neat definition of either male or female, but rather some of both. It's also worth mentioning that human manifestations of the pure 'male' and pure 'female' ideas are exceptionally rare in the real world, and most of those that seem that way or forcing it.
In the end, a big chunk of the problem is that the meanings of the words changed, the same way 'gay' no longer means happy. And people taking surveys (and talking with friends and family) aren't really understanding that 'gender' and 'sex' aren't two words for the same thing anymore.
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