So you know what? Fuck computer games. Fuck computers, and the rush to market mentality that creates buggy software and flimsy hardware. Fuck every hardware or software conflict I've ever had that's taken hours out of my life attempting to resolve so I could ostensibly start having fun. Fuck all of it. I'll still use computers for other things necessary in today's world, like letters, emails, shopping and research, but I am fucking DONE with spending my free time fighting them.
I have moved my attention to board games and been having a great time this year. From 2 player to 8 player games there is a ton of very fun stuff out there. My board gaming parties are so much more social than the big LAN parties that I have had. We would have a 16 man LAN with everyone online as well as playing 2 or 3 different LAN games. There would be guys at my place all weekend who I only spoke to while we were taking a pizza break.
Here is one that you can pick up for about $10 that we played for 5 or 6 hours last weekend. Great fun.
dfs wrote:
I'm not trying to stuff sand down your shorts, but nothing's free. If you need a pc for other applications, gaming is as close to free as you get.
I understand your point, but how many people need an 9800 Pro for other applications?
Still, the trick is to stay behind the curve. If you don't need cutting edge, you can pick up an ATI 9800 for $80, perhaps used. As someone pointed out, that's 4 hours at a bar, or some really nice colored pencils Buy the low cost indie games like Mount & Blade ($11), or bargain bin games like Riddick ($20), and it's not so expensive. Assuming you already have a decent PC anyway.
My point earlier was addressing the amount of time spent in front of a PC, not so much it's cost as a hobby.
I have moved my attention to board games and been having a great time this year. From 2 player to 8 player games there is a ton of very fun stuff out there. My board gaming parties are so much more social than the big LAN parties that I have had. We would have a 16 man LAN with everyone online as well as playing 2 or 3 different LAN games. There would be guys at my place all weekend who I only spoke to while we were taking a pizza break.
Here is one that you can pick up for about $10 that we played for 5 or 6 hours last weekend. Great fun.
Well, as it turns out I still had an old GeForce 4 MMX card laying around (don't laugh, this one came with a used system I bought), and it appears to be able to run CoH (albeit barely). My wife told me she's really been enjoying our CoH sessions, so we'll still probably play CoH for a couple of hours per week. She's even given her blessing for me to buy a new video card, but that's not going to happen. It's a matter of principle now.
I'm serious, I am not spending ANY money for any additional or replacement hardware. I am NOT upgrading ANYthing on my system to run games. Those days are done, I'll be devoting my money to other things. In the unlikely event there's a new game I'm interested in, it better work with what I have or I'm doing without. I predict I'll be a lot more balanced in the long run.
I have moved my attention to board games and been having a great time this year. From 2 player to 8 player games there is a ton of very fun stuff out there. My board gaming parties are so much more social than the big LAN parties that I have had. We would have a 16 man LAN with everyone online as well as playing 2 or 3 different LAN games. There would be guys at my place all weekend who I only spoke to while we were taking a pizza break.
Here is one that you can pick up for about $10 that we played for 5 or 6 hours last weekend. Great fun.
How did labor day weekend go? I was thinking about calling and making it out, but we elected to stay local and only played on Sunday and I think youse guys were playing Friday and Saturday. We had a broad spectrum going. We got in rounds of the new Civ, San Jaun, Titan, and Vinci.
noun wrote:Well, as it turns out I still had an old GeForce 4 MMX card laying around (don't laugh, this one came with a used system I bought), and it appears to be able to run CoH (albeit barely). My wife told me she's really been enjoying our CoH sessions, so we'll still probably play CoH for a couple of hours per week. She's even given her blessing for me to buy a new video card, but that's not going to happen. It's a matter of principle now.
I'm serious, I am not spending ANY money for any additional or replacement hardware. I am NOT upgrading ANYthing on my system to run games. Those days are done, I'll be devoting my money to other things. In the unlikely event there's a new game I'm interested in, it better work with what I have or I'm doing without. I predict I'll be a lot more balanced in the long run.
You're really going to limit your choice of hobbies if you're unwilling to spend money on it.
To my Wife:
"Life's only life with you in this song" -Whistles the Wind, Flogging Molly
Not to my Wife:
- "When someone smiles at me, all I see is a chimpanzee begging for his life."
godhugh wrote:You're really going to limit your choice of hobbies if you're unwilling to spend money on it.
? Sorry, but that's silly. I also play guitar, primarily acoustic. I buy a new set of strings every 6 months or so, to the tune of maybe $10. Those will last dozens of hours, and even hundreds if I don't care about dirt and oil affecting their tone.
What about hiking? Other than some shoes and maybe a map, how much does it cost to go walk somewhere?
Again, some hobbies are just more expensive than others.
My advice is to stay strictly behind the technology curve, and cherry pick only the very finest titles to pay full price for. Most thing will be just as good for one third the price a couple of years down the line, and will play like a dream on the computer you will THEN have.
If you think computer gaming is an expensive hobby, you haven't met anyone into boating. Boating make crack look like something kids do with their lunch money.
I spend about $2000 in computer hardware every 2 years and around $1500 in software and I've been doing that for about 20 years now. Sometimes it dips but all that happens is I'm spending a wee bit more on video game hardware
I also play guitar, primarily acoustic. I buy a new set of strings every 6 months or so, to the tune of maybe $10. Those will last dozens of hours, and even hundreds if I don't care about dirt and oil affecting their tone
Somebody else disspelled hiking.
Most of the guitarist I've played with don't get by on a set of strings every 6 months. Instead they lust after a specific guitar and continually trade in and try out new instruments.
Now you may be the rare bird that doesn't go that way, but it's already been pointed out that just to enjoy the hobby, you don't have to spend $2,000 a year on PC gaming either.
Look, you're welcome to complain about the cost of the hobby, but the notion that you'll give up this hobby in order to save money by finding something cheaper to do is a pipe dream. One of the reasons I stay in PC games is because it's so cheap and if I didn't spend my time doing this I would do something far more expensive.
I have moved my attention to board games and been having a great time this year. From 2 player to 8 player games there is a ton of very fun stuff out there. My board gaming parties are so much more social than the big LAN parties that I have had. We would have a 16 man LAN with everyone online as well as playing 2 or 3 different LAN games. There would be guys at my place all weekend who I only spoke to while we were taking a pizza break.
Here is one that you can pick up for about $10 that we played for 5 or 6 hours last weekend. Great fun.
Jesus, this sounds exactly like what we've been doing lately.. I have weekly or bi-weekly lan sessions over here, and lately we've been a bit staled on games. So I pulled out a Settlers of Catan board game one weekend, and since then we play about an hour on the computer, and 5 hours in board games.
Funny how it all comes around.. I used to play the hell out of board games as a kid, then stopped when computer games came out. Now i'm back to board games heavily finding them much more fun than most computer games.
I never pay more than about $200 for a vid card...that is just a hard and fast rule I have. Has not limited my ability to play games either, as far as I know.
Also, should something happen to it (I usually try to overclock my cards if it's easy to do), I wouldn't be nearly as upset as if I had spent $500.
I can certainly understand frustation at a $500 part failing, so why do it? COH can look and run great on a card that costs less than half that.
Good luck with your new non-gaming future! I both envy and despise you for it!
Ralph-Wiggum wrote:Some hobbies are expensive. Computer games is one of those hobbies. The real question is whether you enjoy it or not. Do you enjoy playing CoH with your wife? Did you enjoy GTA? If yes, then maybe it's worth it. If no, then give it up and find a better use for your money.
Exactly. I'll bet you just "playing around on a guitar" will cost you as much if not more than a computer. Every friend I have who plays the guitar spends LOADS of money on it. You're just going to trade a Video card for a new amplifier. That's not to say you *have* to spend a lot but noone forced you to be able to turn up all the graphics on your games either. You chose to go "high end". I but a new system every 3 years about. Cost me $1500 last time (with 6800GT and 20.5" LCD Monitor). I would say when you add in all the games / ISP connections...etc... I probably spend close to $1200 a year (used to spend more but now I have less time...). So that's less than $4 a day for my hobby. Now for my car I probably spend about twice that when you add it all up (gas, insurance, car payment, etc...). My point is is your *entertainment* really worth that much less than your car? You NEED entertainment in your life much like you need a car. If you like games - play em. As long as your not spending needless money (like more games than you can really play) then what's the harm. If you find a lot more enjoyment cranking the graphics up (like I do) then go for it as long as you can afford it.
godhugh wrote:
What about hiking? Other than some shoes and maybe a map, how much does it cost to go walk somewhere?
For me hiking has cost me (without regards for transportation to get to the spot) maybe $300. A good pair of hiking boots is well over $100. If you go in the winter on icy trails you need more gear (crampons, spikes, etc..). Yeah walking is free but like ANY hobby there are plenty of ways to spend your money.
I've been debating on picking up a GPS (probably not) just for hiking so I can track what trails I've been on and see how far I've gone, elevation, etc...
Carpet_pissr wrote:I never pay more than about $200 for a vid card...that is just a hard and fast rule I have. Has not limited my ability to play games either, as far as I know.
Same here. My last two cards were a ti4200 bought for $200 when they first came out. Served me well for 3 years, and still does.
I kinda broke that rule with my last card. I couldn't wait, and picked up the AGP version of the 6600GT back when they still cost more than the PCI-E version. That set me back $225.
Even 200 bucks is freakin' expensive to me, even though I get tons of use from those cards. The way I see it, I'd have to spend at least $80 to get a cheap 'plain vanilla' card anyway, so all I'm really out is the money spent over and above that. With all the game playing I do, it's more than worth it.
I worry a lot more about what I spend on all the damn games I buy.
"I've been fighting with reality for over thirty-five years, and I'm happy to say that I finally won out over it." -- Elwood P. Dowd
dfs wrote:
I'm not trying to stuff sand down your shorts, but nothing's free. If you need a pc for other applications, gaming is as close to free as you get.
I understand your point, but how many people need an 9800 Pro for other applications?
Still, the trick is to stay behind the curve. If you don't need cutting edge, you can pick up an ATI 9800 for $80, perhaps used. As someone pointed out, that's 4 hours at a bar, or some really nice colored pencils Buy the low cost indie games like Mount & Blade ($11), or bargain bin games like Riddick ($20), and it's not so expensive. Assuming you already have a decent PC anyway.
My point earlier was addressing the amount of time spent in front of a PC, not so much it's cost as a hobby.
i just spent $2 for stronghold AND tropico from bestbuy's old games section.
noun wrote: I'm almost 38 and this is how I'm spending my life?
I had similar thoughts when I was almost the same age. Then I impulsively made a career change...into PC game development! It turned out that all those hours wasted on computer games had been career training. You never know where life is going to take you, so you might as well enjoy the ride.
If you're not enjoying it, maybe you need to change your approach. I probably don't spend much over $250 a year on games and hardware. I get a lot of entertainment for very little money.
I had that same light turn on except it was when I completed one of those really long CRPGs back in the early 90s. After conquering the game with some 200 or more hours put in I started to think of all the other things I could have done.
I was staggered. The time and the cost but mostly the time. Money can be recouped but in real life for me . . . time can not.
However, I didn't quit computer gaming, I just started putting more time into other things.
I have one thought for you noun... You shoud give up computer gaming AFTER you've played City of Villians a bit. I bet your wife and you would have an amazing time playing that together. Especially with some of the PvP action. Nothing like the 2 of you conquering some real humans, instead of scripted predictable mobs.
I had that same light turn on except it was when I completed one of those really long CRPGs back in the early 90s. After conquering the game with some 200 or more hours put in I started to think of all the other things I could have done.
I was staggered. The time and the cost but mostly the time. Money can be recouped but in real life for me . . . time can not.
However, I didn't quit computer gaming, I just started putting more time into other things.
I understand this point, but I don't consider my time "wasted" (at least not yet). I actually only actually game 1 or 2 hours a day and I spend the rest of my time doing other things that I tend to consider "work". So, I like having those 1 or 2 hours to myself to play a game. If it wasn't playing a game, it would be watching TV or reading a book. All in all, the same difference to me.
Get your frickin pc fixed and log back into CoH, DT (noun). I'm getting creamed by teaming with pickup morons and everyone in the guild is playing characters in the 30's. There aren't enough mobs in a two man mish (me and a sk).
$500 buys a lifetime supply of the best German/Import board games money can buy, and you can play them thousands and thousands of times.
Invite some pals over, break out Carcasonne, and some other games and have a damn fine time with it all.
PC's make fine email clients and browsers.
Naw - tabletop roleplaying games are cheaper. All the core material is free on the web now and you can spend a lifetime with creative friends telling interesting stories
In theory anyway - I'm sure I spent more on RPG books than PC games last year
godhugh wrote:
What about hiking? Other than some shoes and maybe a map, how much does it cost to go walk somewhere?
For me hiking has cost me (without regards for transportation to get to the spot) maybe $300. A good pair of hiking boots is well over $100. If you go in the winter on icy trails you need more gear (crampons, spikes, etc..). Yeah walking is free but like ANY hobby there are plenty of ways to spend your money.
I've been debating on picking up a GPS (probably not) just for hiking so I can track what trails I've been on and see how far I've gone, elevation, etc...
I've always hiked, but since getting decent days off last year, I decided to plunge full bore into all season backpacking. My initial cost outlay was $1800 to get all the equipment I wanted. What's nice is if I take care of it all that stuff should last for years, except things like boots. But ya, even hiking is damned expensive! But it's so worth it.
$500 buys a lifetime supply of the best German/Import board games money can buy, and you can play them thousands and thousands of times.
Invite some pals over, break out Carcasonne, and some other games and have a damn fine time with it all.
PC's make fine email clients and browsers.
Naw - tabletop roleplaying games are cheaper. All the core material is free on the web now and you can spend a lifetime with creative friends telling interesting stories
In theory anyway - I'm sure I spent more on RPG books than PC games last year
This is true, i'm finding massive amounts of free tabletop resources.. I really miss board/tabletop gaming, glad to be back to it! PC gaming is pretty poor lately for me and my friends - well all seem to agree - and nobody is complaining about migrating to tabletop/boards.
Just want to chime in and say that I had 2 9800's that the fan melted off the mounting. The first time I figured it was just some freak accident, and grudgingly replaced it. When I went to buy the second one I noticed that the fan had been redesigned, and looked like it was all metal. I figured they learned from their mistake and all would be well. Guess not, the fan mounting was still super melty plastic. Now I have a 6800 and I'm probably never going to buy an ATI product again. Fin.
godhugh wrote:
What about hiking? Other than some shoes and maybe a map, how much does it cost to go walk somewhere?
For me hiking has cost me (without regards for transportation to get to the spot) maybe $300. A good pair of hiking boots is well over $100. If you go in the winter on icy trails you need more gear (crampons, spikes, etc..). Yeah walking is free but like ANY hobby there are plenty of ways to spend your money.
I've been debating on picking up a GPS (probably not) just for hiking so I can track what trails I've been on and see how far I've gone, elevation, etc...
I've always hiked, but since getting decent days off last year, I decided to plunge full bore into all season backpacking. My initial cost outlay was $1800 to get all the equipment I wanted. What's nice is if I take care of it all that stuff should last for years, except things like boots. But ya, even hiking is damned expensive! But it's so worth it.
Racing cars is the worst. Racing HEAVY cars (like Vipers) is just insane. I know guys that go through $1000 worth of tires EACH WEEKEND.
It makes me not feel guilty at all about buing a new PC every year.