Ever since I became an adult, I've considered compassion the most important quality a person can strive for. Concern for others is as important as concern for oneself. The last four and a half years have shown me what an outlier I am for having this view. I'm genuinely embarrassed for how naive I was before about it. I still believe in it strongly, don't get me wrong - I just know that most other people don't, and paying it forward simply stops dead most of the time.
Smoove_B wrote: Fri Jun 04, 2021 12:33 pm
I'll decide to wear a mask for me. I'll decide to get a vaccination for me. I'll decide to stay at home for me. There's been very little messaging or focus on the nature of
public health - how our individual decisions impact others in our community.
The thing is, that's how most Americans do everything (using the illustrative 'I' here): I'll drive safely so
I don't get hurt. I'll follow the traffic laws so that
I don't get fined. I'll save electricity and water because it
saves me money. I'll vote for the politician that will benefit
me the most. I'll donate to charity if it is a good tax deduction for
me. I'll do loud things outside when it is convenient for
me.
Look at other major issues that are going nowhere. The environment. Racial issues. Sexual/gender rights issues. Education. Voting rights. Getting traction in any of them requires that people focus on others rather than themselves, on the community/state rather than their own circle.
We, as a culture, pride our selves in being self sufficient and individualistic. Freedom as an absolute. But those things have a dark side - egotism and selfishness. My freedom at the cost of your freedom. Was it the industrial revolution when American expansion stalled? The boom after WWII when we became a superpower and the closest thing to a 'winner'? The internet, where instead of free access to all information, we discovered we could choose to only access information that made us feel good? It would take a team of scholars to really figure out when we crossed that line, but whenever it was, it's far, far behind us. This response to COVID was absolutely foreseeable in retrospect, but it wasn't foreseen (this is a 'hindsight' comment, not a criticism.) Why? I don't know. I don't know that anybody does.
But I do suspect that a thousand other vital response plans and systems across a multitude of disciplines need to be reexamined around the assumptions that Americans are going to act in pure self interest. This should be foreseen now, by everybody. Any effective planning team is going to have to have behaviorists as a core element. It sucks that it was COVID that taught us this lesson with hundreds of thousands of deaths, and it sucks that the lesson still hasn't been learned by 99% of the population. And that a lot of experts in a lot of fields are still going to keep plans that won't survive contact with the reality of the individual.
What doesn't kill me makes me stranger.