However, if you go and look at your stats, one of the stats is average damage dealt per game. This number is greater than 20. Well, it should be

In any case, all damage charts for the weapons in the game show damage in double digit numbers, and anything over 100 damage is a kill, which to me means that the player has 100 hp. So that means we get 1xp for every 5hp of damage we do.
100hp/(5hp/1xp) = 20 xp.
Here are two links to damage charts that I believe are up to date. I have not compared the two together so I'm not sure if there are any discrepancies between the two, but I posted both for possible comparisons, if you guys are into that.
commercial game site article dated Jan 3rd, 2018
google doc last updated Dec 30, 2017
The google doc has a lot of other useful information so I'm hoping it's accurate enough for use. It's also color coded to show how many of that kind of shot it would take to kill someone with specific armors. Some of the data on the new weapons is missing, unfortunately (dp28, R45, sawed off shotgun etc).