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LordMortis wrote: Wed Mar 19, 2025 9:16 am I wish I was that easy with which to get along. By the time I get to my 70s I could greatly benefit from communal living. Others benefiting from my fickle moods and willingness to participate? Not so much. That probably correlates pretty well with my social circles shrinking over the decades, to the point where I don't even know with whom I'd plan such things.
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A nonny mouse wrote: Tue Mar 18, 2025 8:06 pm
ImLawBoy wrote: Tue Mar 18, 2025 3:51 pm Let me get this straight. Hepcat is concerned with aging alone. Blackhawk is concerned with aging alone. It's been at least 10 years since the last Odd Couple reboot. Reality TV is still a thing.

The path forward seems pretty obvious here.
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stessier wrote: Mon Sep 23, 2024 1:21 pm
stessier wrote: Wed Sep 18, 2024 12:10 pm 2022 Total cholesterol was 259 (LDL - 191, HDL - 53) and my BP was averaging around 135/85 with a resting heart rate of 65-70. Weight is ~212 lbs.
2023 Total Cholesterol was 183 (LDL - 111, HDL - 57) and BP was about 116/80 with a resting heart rate between 60-65. Weight is ~203 lbs.
2024 Total Cholesterol was 176 (LDL - 96, HDL - 69) and BP is down to 110/70 with a resting heart rate of 50-55. Weight is 174.5 lbs.
2025 Total Cholesterol was 196 (LDL - 101, HDL - 88, VLDL - 7) and BP 113/69 with a resting heart rate of 52 over the last 4 weeks (47-57). Weight is 162.5 lbs.
Now updated with this week's numbers. Total cholesterol went up, but only because my HDL went up significantly - running apparently makes a difference. Physical will be in April where I can review these numbers with the doctor.
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Spending way too much time reading support groups on Facebook for prostate cancer right now. Being informed is great…but spending all your free time obsessing over something you haven’t actually been officially diagnosed with yet is not. I need to step away from this for a bit and just wait for professional input. Unfortunately, the wait time requires a level of patience I don’t seem to have right now.
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hepcat wrote: Fri Mar 21, 2025 5:24 pm Spending way too much time reading support groups on Facebook for prostate cancer right now. Being informed is great…but spending all your free time obsessing over something you haven’t actually been officially diagnosed with yet is not. I need to step away from this for a bit and just wait for professional input. Unfortunately, the wait time requires a level of patience I don’t seem to have right now.
Having gone through this I'll pass along my perspective. I didn't look at any support groups and probably you should consider doing the same, since what is there may or may not apply to your situation. Wait till you get a diagnosis and then talk with your doctor about options.
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That's good advice. As the support groups are full of people who obviously did end up having it, I'm just dwelling and obsessing on possibilities. That's not good for me, mentally. Right now I'm just a wreck from the waiting. I need to figure out a way to get out of my head over this.
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And #1 rule to remember about reading scary statistics: Survival rates are based on those who survived for five years after treatment. That means that any survival rates you see are, at the minimum, five years out of date. They're discussing the result of treatments performed at least five years ago. Since they aren't updated every day, you're more likely looking at data that's between six and ten years out of date. Cancer treatment is evolving fast. Five or ten years is like multiple decades for most other sciences. The real numbers are typically much better than the statistics you see online.
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That is true. Thanks.
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hepcat wrote: Fri Mar 21, 2025 6:35 pm That's good advice. As the support groups are full of people who obviously did end up having it, I'm just dwelling and obsessing on possibilities. That's not good for me, mentally. Right now I'm just a wreck from the waiting. I need to figure out a way to get out of my head over this.
I will pass along the advice my wife gives to me when I start obsessing over something worrying... "Get over it". Sounds harsh, but it's good advice. If there's nothing else you can do about it at this time, then focus on the things you can do something about.
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Like playing more Starcom: Unknown Space. God, I'm addicted to that right now...
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hepcat wrote: Fri Mar 21, 2025 6:49 pm Like playing more Starcom: Unknown Space. God, I'm addicted to that right now...
One of the reviews called it "Sid Meyer's Pirates in space". I'm in just based on that.
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gbasden wrote: Sat Mar 22, 2025 1:42 am
hepcat wrote: Fri Mar 21, 2025 6:49 pm Like playing more Starcom: Unknown Space. God, I'm addicted to that right now...
One of the reviews called it "Sid Meyer's Pirates in space". I'm in just based on that.
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gbasden wrote: Sat Mar 22, 2025 1:42 am
hepcat wrote: Fri Mar 21, 2025 6:49 pm Like playing more Starcom: Unknown Space. God, I'm addicted to that right now...
One of the reviews called it "Sid Meyer's Pirates in space". I'm in just based on that.
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It's just a fantastic adventure game in space with RPG mechanics (you level up your crew), customizing your ship (tons of modules/weapons/engines/etc. to add/find) and research (so many trees). Fly around, find planets and send survey teams for a pop up window with what you find, fight enemies, have fun. There's actually two games in the series. I started with the second one though after getting a bundle on sale.
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I expected the "OO Medical Complaints" and the "What Videogames Are You Playing" threads to eventually merge, but just... not quite yet.
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Blackhawk wrote: Fri Mar 21, 2025 6:44 pm And #1 rule to remember about reading scary statistics: Survival rates are based on those who survived for five years after treatment. That means that any survival rates you see are, at the minimum, five years out of date. They're discussing the result of treatments performed at least five years ago. Since they aren't updated every day, you're more likely looking at data that's between six and ten years out of date. Cancer treatment is evolving fast. Five or ten years is like multiple decades for most other sciences. The real numbers are typically much better than the statistics you see online.
I read a good article (maybe book) on this some years ago. A lot of statistics are scare tactics to drive business, such as "our drug is 50% more likely to prevent X disease" is disingenuous if the chances of getting X disease in the first place is .0001%. The statement might be true, but odds of you getting X disease with or without the drug is inconsequential.

The article (book?) addressed prostate cancer specifically. It's not considered a particularly lethal cancer, and in most cases, you will die of something else even living 20 years or more with prostate cancer. The article (book) suggested in some cases, the treatment was more harmful than the disease.

That said, my late friend Don (whom Hepcat had met at an Octocon), had a particularly aggressive form of prostate cancer. His initial chemo seemed to have knocked it out, his PSA was trivial for nearly 2 years. Then surprise! It came back stage 4. He died about 6 years ago after trying every experimental treatment available.

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Jeff V wrote: Sat Mar 22, 2025 7:24 pm I read a good article (maybe book) on this some years ago. A lot of statistics are scare tactics to drive business, such as "our drug is 50% more likely to prevent X disease" is disingenuous if the chances of getting X disease in the first place is .0001%. The statement might be true, but odds of you getting X disease with or without the drug is inconsequential.

The article (book?) addressed prostate cancer specifically. It's not considered a particularly lethal cancer, and in most cases, you will die of something else even living 20 years or more with prostate cancer. The article (book) suggested in some cases, the treatment was more harmful than the disease.

That said, my late friend Don (whom Hepcat had met at an Octocon), had a particularly aggressive form of prostate cancer. His initial chemo seemed to have knocked it out, his PSA was trivial for nearly 2 years. Then surprise! It came back stage 4. He died about 6 years ago after trying every experimental treatment available.
Bottom line of all is that you need to talk to your doctors, take the diagnostic tests as directed and then make an informed decision. When I had my biopsy the cancer had spread throughout the prostate and while it was possible to treat it with aggressive radiation treatment using inserts, we went with what we decided was the option with the best likely outcome, a radical prostatectomy. I'm very happy with the outcome.
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I signed up for an Eli Lilly Co. Alzheimer's prevention study and passed two rounds of telephone screening. The nearest clinic called me several days ago to schedule an initial appointment, but I was napping and it went to voicemail. I returned the call the next day, the the clinician was napping and it went to voicemail. And that was the end of that. I'll ring them up once more on Monday. I am willing to donate my brain to science!
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Kraken wrote: Sat Mar 22, 2025 9:06 pm I am willing to donate my brain to science!
At the rate things are going, science isn't going be a thing anymore by the time you expire.
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I really need to stop googling stuff on my current health situation. It’s not good for me mentally. :(
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